90 Day's Brandan Stresses over Mary's 'Physical Control' of Him: 'It Can't Be Like This Forever'

Photo:TLCBrandanhas reached a point of no return on90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way.The American man has only spent a few days with his long-distance love,Mary, in the Philippines, but he’s setting some ground rules. An outing to church made Brandan’s blood boil when Mary insisted he keep his eyes only on the priest, and routinely reminded him not to look at other women.To Mary, that meant wandering eyes anywhere in the church — and insisted Brandan could only look at the holy happenings, or at her.

90 Day's Brandan Tells a Stone-Faced Mary He Has 'Cold Feet' Before Proposing — in a Cleaning Closet (Exclusive)

Brandanis ready to take the next step in his relationship withMary— but she seemed anything but sure. In PEOPLE’s exclusive sneak peek at Monday night’s90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way, Brandan admits he is “getting cold feet all of a sudden” as he prepares to propose to Mary. “This has been a long time coming and I just wanted to basically say that you know I love you and I don’t know how else to say this other than to just, you know, kind of show you,” he says as he opens a ring box.

90 Day's Brandan Wants Intimacy in 'Awkward' First Night with Mary — but Her Grandparents Are Next Door (Exclusive)

Brandanmay have moved across the world to be withMaryon90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way, but the pair aren’t exactly living out a fairy tale romance. In PEOPLE’s exclusive sneak peek at Monday’s episode, the couple spends an awkward first night together in Mary’s room while her grandparents are seemingly within earshot. “Normally we’d be on the phone right now, not, like, this close on a bed,” Brandan says toMarywith a shy smile.

90 Day's Christian Drops the 'Love' Bomb — Then Invites a Random Girl to a Meaningful Celebration

Photo:TLC TLC Christian and Cleojust might get whiplash on90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days. The American man went from romantic gestures to betrayal over the course of one episode on Sunday — and there’s no telling where it will land their relationship. It all started when the couple went to a costume shop to cosplay, and Christian had a sparkling gift up his sleeve. In a moment of romance, he approached Cleo with a sterling silver necklace as a “physical” representation of his emotions.

90 Day's Christian Gets 'Defensive' as Cleo Confronts Him — with a Friend in Tow — for Lying About Sex

Christian and Cleo.Photo:TLC TLC ChristianandCleofaced another hurdle in their relationship on90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days. Meanwhile, Christian felt “extremely deflated.” He shared that he sent Cleo a text that morning attempting to explain, but thatshe called him a “manipulator”and “gaslighter” and “asked if I was a psychopath.” “It’s just extremely upsetting that something that I feel is a very small situation that could be remedied with just some communication is really blown out of proportion,” Christian said in an interview.