90 Day: Brandan and Mary's 'Chaotic' Fights Make Their Home a 'War Zone,' Plus Holly and Wayne Explore Bondage

Mary and Brandan contemplate their future — and Brandan’s potential move back to America — on 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way.Photo:TLC TLC Several90 Day Fiancé: The Other Waycouples hit make-or-break moments on Monday night’s episode. Relationships hung in the balance as one couple walked down the aisle to wed and another contemplated a future apart if they couldn’t agree on how to split the housework. And it wouldn’t be a TLC show without some heated and unhelpful opinions from family!

90 Day: Brandan Gets a 'Reality Check' from Mary While Daniele Accuses Yohan of 'Destroying' Their Marriage

Mary and Brandan discuss the future of their relationship.Photo:TLC TLC The day might eventually come when90 Day Fiancé: The Other Wayfeatures only happy moments — but that day wasn’t Monday. This week’s episode showed a few couples turn a corner toward improving their communication, and one family planned a whole new future. In between the moments of clarity, though, came viscous arguments and frustrating misunderstandings. Kimberly and TJ’s wedding day was full of confusion, whileShekinah’s sister becameSarper’s public enemy No.

90 Day: Brandan Nears His Breaking Point as Mary Won't Let Him Even Look at Other Girls (Exclusive)

Brandanmay finally be reaching his breaking point when it comes to his volatile relationship withMaryon90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way. In PEOPLE’s exclusive sneak peek at Monday’s episode, tension increases between the two 23-year-olds when Mary bringsBrandanto her church in the Philippines. Throughout the sermon, she continuously reminds him “don’t look at girls,” instructing him to only look at her and the priest. Although Brandan tries to “play it cool and be calm,” it’s clear he’s nearing a breakdown.

90 Day: Brandan Predicts Life with Mary Will Get Even More 'Messy' as Yohan Walks Out on Daniele — with the Dog

Brandan hugs his mother on 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way.Photo:TLC TLC Things are getting real — and loud — on90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way. Monday night’s episodeended with a tease of what’s to come in the rest of the season — from marriage and intimacy to one couple’s holiday gone wrong. Now the couples must face their do-or-die moment, making vows and taking account of the state of their partnerships and living situations.

90 Day: Brandan Shares How Mary Was a 'Life-Changer' Who Rescued Him Emotionally After a Suicide Attempt

Photo:TLC TLC On Monday night’s90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way,Brandangave some essential insight about hisunwavering commitmenttoMary, despite thecodependent toxicitythey’ve fallen into two years into their relationship. The episode featuring heartbreaking revelations Brandan, who shared that Mary came into his life at a time when he desperately needed support. “When I met Mary, I was in a point in my life where I was, like, done with everything,” Brandan recalled. Through tears, he shared, “I didn’t feel like I was good enough for anyone.